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Today one unsettling thought crossed my mind and I feel like sharing it with you guys. So the thing is yesterday I came across my bhabhi (my cousin’s wife) who is a widow as my Bhaiya passed away a few years ago, in a family function after a long time. I was dismayed seeing, how much she has transformed from an upbeat and happy person to a dejectedly silent person, wearing no makeup, accessories, bindi nothing but a simple plain saree. It caught my attention when my sisters were discussing that “ vo kitni change ho gyi hai, shant aur kam bolna” then my sister called her and asked ‘ how are you’ and she replied ‘ I am okay’ and then my sister said ‘ it’s okay to put bindi and light accessories, if you like’ and her reply is still clinging to my mind when she said that what if people misjudge her saying that her husband is dead and she is expressing no pain, being brazen as she is embellished with jewelleries, bindi and make up. After that I felt, I m also a girl and I love b

This morning, sweeper came by so I went outside to hand him garbage then I saw that he brought his daughter who is 9 years old along with him. I was caught off guard and felt dejected seeing her and expressed my gratitude towards God as I am blessed with everything I need to make my life survivable and then I asked that person why he brought his daughter with him as she was so naive and young to do this work Instead she should be in studying like other children and then he told me "bhen ji haath m lag gyi thi toh le Aya tha...." hearing to this I was short of words and said no worries but try not to bring your child to this work because your generation did this that's why u r doing but try not to pass this to your child as it will affect her future generation also. The moral of the story is that we are blessed with everything we need in our lives. It is upon us to understand the difference between our needs and our wants and if you have more than your needs then try to sh

She is Unnati, Came to my home to spend some time. So She Wakes up Early in the morning and starts revising tables, but it sounds irritating to me because at that time I sleep and it's like an alarm ringing but still at the same time I feel cheerful considering how dedicated she is about her studies. Every time she is like "didi humko kam dedo ,didi ye padha doh " and the way she says, it's overwhelming. One fine day when I was talking to my friend jyoti on call "unnati said didi humari bhi bat kra doh " then I said okay then she started talking to my frnd , asking her, didi humko ye pdhna hai humko aap ye sikha dogi kya. I laughed and at the same time I felt isko sbse pdhna hai (didi, bhaiya , jyoti and mujh se) So the thing is studying in a government school there is no good teacher and no proper education provided to students but still she is so dedicated about her studies . Government nd private doesn't matter but baccha's dedication matters. She